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16 January 2009 @ 12:17 am
Official Dates  
I know it's way early, but I just want to make it known so that those who are in my family or are close friends who are getting married in the same year don't set the same dates.

I'm going to start shopping around for venues soon because I hear 2010 is going to be filled with weddings!



Social date: Saturday April 10, 2010 (our 7th year anniversary)
Wedding date: Sunday October 10, 2010 (Thanksgiving long weekend)
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Dakine023: hugs glitter-graphics.com[info]dakine023 on January 16th, 2009 06:28 am (UTC)
ooh look at you with the 10.10.10!!!!!
AJC[info]applewonders on January 16th, 2009 06:38 am (UTC)
lol, i HAD to!
[info]supremecomplex on January 16th, 2009 06:32 am (UTC)
CONGRATULATIONS! :)

I'm getting married in June 2010! I'm so glad that you picked a social date & wedding date! I'll def love to come to your social.

We should get together and do bridal stuff. Plus I'd love to see you and have lunch and catch up! Are you going to the Wonderful Wedding Show? I hope to see you there! :)

I just realized you have a Blackberry, too. What's your pin!? I can get you on BBM and we can trade bridal secrets lolol!

xoxo.
AJC[info]applewonders on January 16th, 2009 06:43 am (UTC)
thanks jan! did you pick out a social date yet? lemme know!

when is this wonderful wedding show anyway? jun's sister is getting married this summer and she's been asking me to go with her, too. maybe i'll see you there instead! i'll be the one hogging the line in front of the snack table =)

i took out my blackberry plan (or whatever you call that plan to use pin texting) because i never use it. i am on the internet more than i am on the phone, so anyone can just email me or leave me a message on facebook and i'll respond a lot faster! lol
[info]supremecomplex on January 16th, 2009 06:48 am (UTC)
We're actually thinking of having the social in the middle of this year (August/September) because of things that the fiancee and I are doing throughout the year until our wedding -- so when we get the date, I'll make sure to let you know!

The wedding show is this weekend! My bridesmaids/maid of honor are taking me on Sunday to celebrate my 25th birthday there, lololol. How convenient! Seriously though, you should go. Wear a good pair of shoes and get ready to go through a lot of places. I hear there are TONS of places to check out. :)

What's your e-mail? We can communicate back & forth through that! I totally forgot it. I have e-mail on my BB! :)

xoxo
lyliankoay[info]ll_icon on January 16th, 2009 06:39 am (UTC)
Congrats to you!
I also plan on 2010 but haven't decide on the date yet :D
AJC[info]applewonders on January 16th, 2009 06:43 am (UTC)
yay! hurry up and pick your date before someone beats you to it! haha, rather be safe than sorry =)
yummmmm[info]ilovefood on January 16th, 2009 07:22 am (UTC)
yay! 2 steps closer! how exciting!

btw what is a social? i always hear of them but don't know what it is exactly. like a baby/bridal shower but for the bride n groom???
[info]shop_princess on January 21st, 2009 07:09 pm (UTC)
I'd like to know what a social is as well :)
AJC[info]applewonders on January 30th, 2009 11:11 pm (UTC)
it's a function/party usually held a few months before the wedding. tickets to get in are usually $10 and you have your entourage to sell as many tickets as they can. the most people i've seen attend a social is around 1000 people, so on tickets alone you can make $10,000! the main part of the social are the prize draws. people can buy as many tickets as they want for whatever prizes they want to win. i've seen plasma tvs, cruise tickets, vegas tickets, even washers and dryers! tickets for the draws are sold by lengths, like 1 arm length worth of tickets is $10 or something like that. so people try to cheat and find the person with the longest arms to buy tickets for them, which i find really funny! and then there's tickets for booze, too! so yeah, you can make so much money off of a social! and then the bride and groom use that towards their wedding. pretty cool huh!

i can't believe winnipeg is the only one that does socials!
AJC[info]applewonders on January 30th, 2009 11:10 pm (UTC)
yeah, everything is finally falling into place. but honestly, i'm in no rush to do this whole wedding thing. i told jun it wouldn't really matter if we did it next year or in the next 5 years. i dunno, i guess because i already he's not going anywhere and vice versa. i can't believe i'm that much more confident in our relationship now. maybe it's the ring =p

i already told you what a social is, woman! haha! it's a function/party usually held a few months before the wedding. tickets to get in are usually $10 and you have your entourage to sell as many tickets as they can. the most people i've seen attend a social is around 1000 people, so on tickets alone you can make $10,000! the main part of the social are the prize draws. people can buy as many tickets as they want for whatever prizes they want to win. i've seen plasma tvs, cruise tickets, vegas tickets, even washers and dryers! tickets for the draws are sold by lengths, like 1 arm length worth of tickets is $10 or something like that. so people try to cheat and find the person with the longest arms to buy tickets for them, which i find really funny! and then there's tickets for booze, too! so yeah, you can make so much money off of a social! and then the bride and groom use that towards their wedding. pretty cool huh!
yummmmm[info]ilovefood on February 2nd, 2009 07:45 am (UTC)
hey momma! really? you told me what a social is before? hmmmm i have really bad memory, sorry lol i still don't really get it...so where do the prizes come from? (those are some grand prizes!)
AJC[info]applewonders on February 2nd, 2009 10:42 pm (UTC)
usually the prizes are provided by the bride and groom themselves. sometimes family offers to buy or pitch in for some of the prizes. and other times if you're lucky and are not shy about going to businesses, you can get sponsored by writing them a formal letter regarding your wedding social. businesses here don't give much for social prizes, usually little items, but even with those little items that you collect from various companies you can make a prize package out of it. i've seen spa packages, electronic packages, auto packages, hair packages...oh! and the money tree package is my favorite! it's just a cardboard cut into a shape of a tree and then you stick scratch n' win tickets onto it until the whole tree is filled up with the tickets. usually couples buy like $100 worth of $1-$5 scratch n' win tickets to fill a 2 ft cardboard tree. of course the more tickets you have on the tree the more people will want to spend on it.

basically, you can have whatever you want for the prizes. it's all a matter of getting people to spend as much money as they can at your wedding social. the better the prizes, the more money you'll make =)
AJC[info]applewonders on February 2nd, 2009 10:46 pm (UTC)
ooh..and of course, you gotta allow people to enjoy themselves. good music to dance to, tons of booze, and finger foods...it's really a big party held in a rec center, 'cept your main goal is to take their money. lol
[info]mizz_xtine on January 16th, 2009 08:26 am (UTC)
wait what! nick and i have been together longer than you guys?!

congrats..soo excited for you!
AJC[info]applewonders on January 30th, 2009 11:11 pm (UTC)
haha, i guess so??

thank you bubbles =)
OhSams: nikon[info]ohsams on January 16th, 2009 01:30 pm (UTC)
so exciting! i wish i had a wedding... dont need a groom, i just wanna wear the dress! haha sad.
AJC[info]applewonders on January 30th, 2009 11:12 pm (UTC)
lol...totally! you don't need a groom to get married! you'd look a little silly, but who cares!
sofiesday[info]sofiesday on January 16th, 2009 02:11 pm (UTC)
aww I am so excited :) mua! ganda mo sis :)
AJC[info]applewonders on January 30th, 2009 11:12 pm (UTC)
thanks sista! you look so cute in your icon pic!
mk.vang[info]simplenchic on January 16th, 2009 02:17 pm (UTC)
Congrats on setting a date =)
AJC[info]applewonders on January 30th, 2009 11:13 pm (UTC)
i know! thanks, now hopefully i can HAVE that date for the venue! *crosses fingers*
mimi[info]oo_mimi_oo on January 16th, 2009 02:48 pm (UTC)
whoo!! congrats sweetie!! =)) can't wait to see your wedding planning/posts!!
AJC[info]applewonders on January 30th, 2009 11:13 pm (UTC)
haha...no, i can't wait to see YOUR wedding planning posts!
[info]shop_princess on February 3rd, 2009 04:42 pm (UTC)
wait, what? am I missing something? Is Miss Mimi getting married as well?

I'm so out of the loop!
[info]desireless on January 16th, 2009 04:38 pm (UTC)
Congratulations, that's so exciting! Now I wanna get married too!! :)
AJC[info]applewonders on January 30th, 2009 11:14 pm (UTC)
lol...everyone's getting married so i wouldn't be surprised if you announced your engagement next!
lalabloopbloop[info]lalabloopbloop on January 16th, 2009 06:05 pm (UTC)
ooh yes! you better start with venues asap, alot of people will pick 10.10.10 as their wedding date too!!!

congratulations!
AJC[info]applewonders on January 30th, 2009 11:14 pm (UTC)
i know! i'm getting so worried i won't get the date!

thank you =)
[info]meocat on January 16th, 2009 06:07 pm (UTC)
haha cool date. but yeah, what's a "social date"--never heard of that!
AJC[info]applewonders on January 30th, 2009 11:16 pm (UTC)
lol, cheesy i know! but the number 10 has always held a special meaning to me and it's my lucky number =)

i'm just gonna copy and paste my answer above =p

it's a function/party usually held a few months before the wedding. tickets to get in are usually $10 and you have your entourage to sell as many tickets as they can. the most people i've seen attend a social is around 1000 people, so on tickets alone you can make $10,000! the main part of the social are the prize draws. people can buy as many tickets as they want for whatever prizes they want to win. i've seen plasma tvs, cruise tickets, vegas tickets, even washers and dryers! tickets for the draws are sold by lengths, like 1 arm length worth of tickets is $10 or something like that. so people try to cheat and find the person with the longest arms to buy tickets for them, which i find really funny! and then there's tickets for booze, too! so yeah, you can make so much money off of a social! and then the bride and groom use that towards their wedding. pretty cool huh!
[info]meocat on January 30th, 2009 11:25 pm (UTC)
do you guys provide the prizes then? who plans the social date?
AJC[info]applewonders on January 30th, 2009 11:38 pm (UTC)
well, sometimes couples get lucky and find sponsors for the prizes. and sometimes the parents of the couples pitch in for the bigger items. but most often, the couples are the ones who pay for the whatever prizes they want. on average, a couple can spend anywhere from $3000-$6000 on a social. but if everything is planned right and you're diligent about collecting the money from your entourage for the tickets sold (because sometimes they tend to just give the tickets to people and collect the money later...and "later" usually means never so you end up losing money on that) then you can more than double the amount you spent on everything. a friend of mine who had a social two years ago made about $15,000 and i believe they spent about about $5000 on everything...booze, finger foods, prizes, cost of the rec center, etc.

and the social date is pretty much up to you.
Aisa[info]misssayuri on January 18th, 2009 04:51 am (UTC)
confricken
gratulations!

You look so glowy and happy! and deservingly so!
AJC[info]applewonders on January 30th, 2009 11:18 pm (UTC)
Re: confricken
thank you aisa =)
miss_jeanna[info]miss_jeanna on January 19th, 2009 05:13 pm (UTC)
10.10.10! congratulations! definitely start shopping around for venues now. i started inquiring 15 months out and couldn't get the month i wanted.

happy planning! so excited for you, you totally deserve all this and more :)
AJC[info]applewonders on January 30th, 2009 11:19 pm (UTC)
oh man jeanna! i'm already getting anxious about the venue! what if i don't get the date??? damn.

how about you? how's your planning going? having fun? hehe
Adeline[info]pinkmiracle on January 21st, 2009 01:07 am (UTC)
a belated congratulations... and.. what's a social date?
AJC[info]applewonders on January 30th, 2009 11:20 pm (UTC)
thank you!

it's a function/party usually held a few months before the wedding. tickets to get in are usually $10 and you have your entourage to sell as many tickets as they can. the most people i've seen attend a social is around 1000 people, so on tickets alone you can make $10,000! the main part of the social are the prize draws. people can buy as many tickets as they want for whatever prizes they want to win. i've seen plasma tvs, cruise tickets, vegas tickets, even washers and dryers! tickets for the draws are sold by lengths, like 1 arm length worth of tickets is $10 or something like that. so people try to cheat and find the person with the longest arms to buy tickets for them, which i find really funny! and then there's tickets for booze, too! so yeah, you can make so much money off of a social! and then the bride and groom use that towards their wedding. pretty cool huh!
oceanize[info]oceanize on January 29th, 2009 06:10 pm (UTC)
my gawd i've been gone, far too long...

Holy MOLY! congrats!!!! 10.10.10 :D))))) OMAGAH!
AJC[info]applewonders on January 30th, 2009 11:27 pm (UTC)
yeah, where did you go??

thank you! i know, the date's cheesy...but the number 10 has always been a good number for me. jun and i met at 10pm. haha, i actually remember the time because that was the time he approached me at the pub we first met at to ask for the time, even though i could clearly see that he had a watch on his wrist! lol. and then we officially started dating on april 10th, 2003. so yeah, that's the meaning behind the date.
 
 

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